ʻO ke ola o kahi mom (home-home-mom) (SAHM) e hoʻopuniʻia e ka nui o nā mele. Mai ka manaʻo e nohoʻo ia ma luna o ka moe i nā lā a pau e nānā ana i ka TV i ka manaʻo wahaheʻe e holo ana kāna kāne i ka hōʻike,ʻo ka mea haʻalulu i ka hopena. ʻO kekahi o nā kuhihewa nui loa e pili ana i nā mākua noho noho ma ka home e pili ana i ke kālā, a he kumu ia e kuʻi ana i ka mama e kū'ē i ka mom a me ka SAHM kū'ē i kaʻaha kanaka. E mākaukau e hoʻopiʻi i kēlā mau kālā kuhihewa e pili ana i kēia mau wāhine.
01 He mea nui ka Home Maoli
Manaʻo kekahi poʻe ua ola nā SAHM i ka nohona maikaʻi aʻaʻole hoʻi e hopohopo nā mākua ma ka home no ka mea loaʻa i ka mea hoʻokahi i loaʻa kālā i loko o ka hale me ka uku kālāʻeono. Uaʻike maoliʻo Pew Research he 34 pakeneka o nā makuahine noho ma ka home me ka liʻiliʻi he 10 pakeneka o nā mākua noho noho ma ka home e paʻa ana i ke kula kiʻekiʻe i loko o ka waiwaiʻohana ma kahi o $ 75,000. ʻO kēia 10% ka unuhiʻana i kahi o hoʻokahi pakeneka o nā mikamoku 35 miliona miliona o US, nā mākua a me nā SAHM, 18 mau makahiki 69 a hiki i ka home. Akā,ʻo nā helu e hōʻike anaʻaʻole ia e like me ka manaʻo o nā kānaka.
02 Aia nā Mākua Noho Loa ma ka Home e Loaʻaʻole i ke kālā
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he nui nā mākua kāne noho ma ka home. Pono lākou. He mea maʻalahi ka hānaiʻana i nā keiki a hānai i nā keiki ma kahi kālā hoʻokahi. Akā, ma ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i ka waihona kālā no ka hoʻonohonohoʻana a me ka hoʻololiʻana i nā mea e pono ai,ʻaʻole hiki i nā SAHM ke mālama i nā lilo wale nō, akā,ʻo ke kālā kālā no nā ua ua, nā hoʻomaha puaʻohana a me nā kālā o ke kulanui.
Hoʻokumu i nā Mākua Noho Ma ka Home-i ka Makahiki i ka Poʻokumu i Hoʻopilikiaʻia ko lākou Haumāna
ʻAe,ʻo nāʻohana me ka makua hoʻokahi ma ka home eʻokiʻoki i nā kihi, akā,ʻo nāʻohana a pau,ʻo nā meaʻelua hoʻi o nā mākua hana, eʻimi ana i nāʻano e hana ai i nā pennies. ʻO nā home me hoʻokahi makua kāne e noho ana i ka home, pono e mālama nui i nā kālā o ko lākouʻohana. ʻAʻole ia manaʻo he hōʻeuʻeu i kahi hui lōʻihi wikiwiki no ka 100 mau ketchup pahū e hiki ai iāʻoe ke'ōpala i loko o kaʻele ma ka home aiʻole e māhele i ka pepa me ka lua-ply i loko o kahi pāʻani PP hoʻokahi e loaʻa ai i kahi maikaʻi maikaʻi no kāu kī. ʻOiai ke mālama pono nei nā SAHM i nā waiwai o kaʻohana, loaʻa iā lākou kekahi mauʻano hou e hoʻolālā i ka uku hoʻokahi o kaʻohana me kaʻole o nā mea e nele i ka nele.
04 E noho mau ma ka hale me nā mākuaʻole
Eia naʻe, kōkua nā mākua noho ma ka home i ka laina lalo o ko lākouʻohana ma nāʻano likeʻole. Ke hiki mai i nāʻano hana hana e hana i ke kālā, hikiʻole ke paʻiʻia nā mākua noho ma ka home. Ke kūʻai nei lākou i kā lākou mau mea i hana ai, e like me nā makana a me nā makana i kālaiʻia. Hāʻawi lākou i nā mea hale i mea kūʻai aku i nā mea hana, nā puke, nā lole a me nā mea'ē aʻe. Ke nānā nei lākou i nā manawa pūnaewele e hana ma keʻano he mea kūʻai mea kūʻai, mea kākau a mea mea kiʻi kiʻi paha.
ʻO nā mea hoʻi eʻimiʻole ana i nā kālā kālā, ke hāpai nei lākou i ka loaʻa kālā o kā lākouʻohana i kahi ala likeʻole. Ua loaʻa i kekahi mau nīnau hou kahi māhele nui o nā mākua noho ma ka home me kaʻikeʻole i ka hana. A hōʻike pūʻia hoʻi ka noiʻi i ka nui o nā wāhine e noho noho ma ka home i ke ala nui ma muli o ka piʻiʻana o ka uku o ka mālama keiki. No kekahi,ʻo ka uku o ka mālamaʻana a me nā koina o kahi kaʻa, ka kino, mālama pono hale, lole a me nā meaʻai ka hana maoli ma waho o ka uku home ma mua o ka home noho.
05 Mai nā Mākua Noho Ma ka Home e hana i nā hoʻoholo kālā
ʻO nā SAHM o kēia lā ke mālama nei i ka hōʻuluʻuluʻohana, e uku ana i nā pili a me ka mālama kālā. ʻAʻole paha lākou ka mea i kapaʻia he mea lawaiʻa, akā, ma nāʻohana he nui kaʻike kālā e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i ka ukuʻiaʻana o ka moraki, ua hoʻokuʻuʻia kekahi o ke kālā a ua lawa ka hoʻolālā kālā no ka ukuʻana i nā hana hana a nā keiki. .